hey there...I love your videos. About this one, well, I'll give my prospective...We all have to search our own souls individually in order to understand totally who we are, before we can understand what it is in a partner that will make us truly happy. We also must, I repeat MUST...learn to LOVE ourselves, totally, unconditionally, without all the egotistical crap, before we can transfer that love to someone else. Its a huge step in life to do this, and many people can't stand the thought of being alone long enough to truly understand and accept who they really are. Once we accept who our soul really is, and learn to love the energy inside of our own being, we become happy, positive people, and immediately attract similiar positive beings to us. Learn to get rid of all the negative through change within, and the world will open up to a new dimension. Keep up the good work, Elsa.........Deryl